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You can find diagrams illustrating where to spank. I have not seen any that advocate spanking the thighs. Are thighs considered sacred and off-limits?
Thighs are without doubt more sensitive than the bottom. It does not take much to produce a sting that will last much longer than several strikes to the bottom.
We came to love giving each other a thigh fry. It was Bacall who came up with the idea. She saw a wooden batten abandoned on the grounds of our sailing club. [Battens are used to stiffen the leach of a sail] This one was about 14 inches long, an inch wide and a 1/4 inch thick. She picked it up to take home. It lay on a table in the garage for a time. As we passed by it one day said it would be excellent for spanking her inner thighs. This was the first I knew of her desire for that.
Soon she was on her back on the bed with her knees up and legs spread. I tentatively applied the batten to her lower thighs. She said she wanted it close to her most sensitive parts and harder. I followed her instructions. She was visibly turned on. I tapped her pussy with it and she squirmed and twitched. Hot damn this was a keeper.
She liked it on her inner thighs. I liked it on the front and back of my thighs. While standing, I would hold one leg up so she could land a lick straight down. [Protecting my dick from being hit] After 10 on the front and another 10 on the back, the sting was delightful. Then it was time for my paddling.
Thigh spanking is definitely in the ‘mutual agreement’ zone, as with you and Bacall. Most ladies seem to hate it, except there was one spanking partner who was happy to take anything on the back of the thighs. Using a cane on the thighs can leave devastating and long lasting marks. The mention of sailing battens is most interesting. Some years ago I started using fibreglass battens, one side covered in thin leather, the other plain. As a cane substitute it was highly effective, and did less damage. The lady who could take the thigh treatment was also capable of taking a number of intensely stinging strokes with the batten, to her obviously painful enjoyment. Apart from seeing the occasional use of a wooden three foot carpentry ruler (which break easily), the use of ‘battens’ seems quite rare here. Yet, as you point out, it makes an excellent implement.
Yes, there should be mutual agreement on thigh spanking, but then all percussive play should be. Right?
We had never seen a wooden batten. Ours were fiberglass. One side in leather seems attractive for this type of play.
A flexible plastic ruler can be used. It wraps around the thigh. Wicked.
That Bacall came up with was surprising to me, She is way kinkier than I am, especially in bondage. She engaged in that in college as a Freshman.
Perhaps I should have phrased that as ‘specific agreement’, that is to say all action lower than the subgluteal fold requires a specific ask. Couples, who practice spanking as part of the relationship, would approach ‘edgy’ action differently than a pro spankee and her client.
Never really sampled a thigh-fry, at least not deliberately. Could definitely see it, used as a light, stingy enhancer during impact or sensation play.
For us, it is foreplay before the paddling which is foreplay for us. For me, it is having stinging thighs and knowing the paddling is yet to come.
We have tried spanking on thighs with a spanking stick which is very similar to the Batten you describe. Its VERY stingy and distracting when not warmed up. My wife is even more sensitive to a lengthy light warm up. Once she is warmed up, she loves an extended session with almost anything including thigh spanking.
Early on, I bought a pussy paddle and have used it off and on a few times with excellent results once warmed up. This little paddle is semiflexible and has an hour glass taper to it. When used lightly, its a real teaser.
When I was just starting to play, I did a lot of research, and bought several books on the subject.(what a geek) The attached scan is from one of those books. It does recognize the backs of the thighs, but made no mention of the fronts.
You guys like it after a warmup. While we dove right in. Proving there is no right way to do it.
She likes the batten tapped on her pussy. I discovered that by accident. We had a pussy whip. The falls were elastic the same as used to connect the ball to a Fliback paddle. Shown on the left. [Thanks, I did not know pictures could be attached to comments]
I must not be looking at your picture correctly. Does the yellow area depict the thighs?
What position(s) do you guys use to receive a thigh fry? I described Bacall’s position. I stand with a leg raised from the front and bend over for the back.
There is a black leather slapper in the picture I will have to blog about.
To orient the pic: You are looking down on someone who is on their stomach. the yellow areas are the thighs, stopping well before the backs of the knees. Of course the oh yes areas are the sit spots of the bottom 🙂
I haven’t seen a diagram of the front area of the thigh, but I am assuming its much the same except it will run closer to the knees since there are no tendons to be concerned with.
We’ve always used it OTK or lying on the bed face down over pillows.
For me, yes, from the knee all the way up. Somehow holding my leg out for the lick clearly showed I wanted it. Submissive? I did it to protect my boner which was in the way otherwise. Some guys want their dick hit. Not me.
To warm up, or not to warm up, that is the question. It is a matter of personal preference. In my humble experience, most spankees prefer a warm up, with the benefit to the spanker of the lady taking longer and harder action. But then there is Dr (yes, really) Leia Ann Woods who launches her spanking parties taking a six stroke cold caning from each of the gentlemen present. That’s 90 or so strokes.
Interested in the word ‘slapper’. Not used here, as a ‘slapper’ refers to a highly promiscuous woman.