A reader sent me a link to the question of the week blog. He noted how different the views of the commenters were from the content on OBB. (OK, I know the content here is all over the place, but it’s always about spanking is fun and erotic and never about punishment)
The question:
Are spankees defiant, bratty or recalcitrant initially, throughout, or until the discipline sinks in? Or are they apologetic and remorseful from the outset?
Around here we are damn happy to get spanked. Never defiant, apologetic or remorseful.
How to get spanked around here. Ask How about a spanking?
I am going to bind and blindfold you and then paddle your caboose.
I am going to take you into the closet and use a belt on you.
Anyway, you decide. https://hermionesheart.blogspot.com/2024/07/spanko-brunch-20-550.html
I think this picture tells my story. There are few pictures like it.
I am rigid, before, during and after a padding. Bacall is just as excited, but not visually so.
We are not into spanking as punishment either, but we do have a couple of things that I can do on purpose when I want the experience without asking. Leaving the toilet seat up for example tells her my need without my asking and adds some fun. There are a couple of other things for variety and she also has her signs when she wants to be spanked.
There is no right way to ask for a spanking. Everyone develops their own way. After two decades we landed on asking for it as best for us. We had a campaign-style pin-on button that read Spank Me.
InquiringMeddling minds want to know what her signs when she wants to be spanked.As for the other, immediately after puberty, any thought of spanking would immediately result in an erection no matter where I was and I had control those thoughts in my teenage years. When ever I wanted one, the smallest thought of spanking resulted in one. Even at my age now, I still find that reaction, but some chemical assistance is required to get back to full glory.
When she is in the mood, she gives me a hug and pats my bottom as somehow, we always both get spanked, her first and me second as I am always ready.
I was a later bloomer. Sex and spanking were not connected for me until I was 19 and it was done in an instant.
I understand about the little blue pills. I had no problem getting it up, it was the sudden deflation that was the problem.
Thanks for sharing. Maybe go give her a pat?
‘Twas I who suggested that question to Hermione. All my spankings involve some sort of role play where I’m being punished. Much of it is my guilty conscience from trying to peek at girls panties growing up. Go figure.
But it’s all a game for Irene and me.
You acquired a lifetime of guilt from panty-peeking as a kid? Laughing here.
I read your response to your question. While it’s role-play it’s couched in discipline. A visitor from Uranus would not be able to tell it’s in fun.
If we want more, we just ask. Totally weird huh?
Thanks for sharing.
PS Any excuse to use Uranus.