I have to say I was disappointed in the response to Saturday’s post. I started out with a humorous image of a woman scrubbing the floors while being plowed.
Then I made a big jump to a picture of Bacall taken while she was throughly enjoying herself. I used two lines from Taxi to explain how I viewed what happened. Not one damn word said about Bacall, but you folks sure are Harry Chapin fans.
I’ll take that and try not t0 share such intimate details in the future.
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OBB has from the first post been about sensual, fun, erotic spanking. Never ever about punishment, discipline, behavior modification. When I spank I grin. She may also. When she puts the wood to me, she does with glee as she knows it gives me sensual gratification.
I know that people like us make up about 1/5 of the spanko population. We are always a minority.
I learned from the second round of Pick Y0ur Spanker that many OBB readers want a dominate woman to soundly spank them. That surprised me. You will not see many dominate women on OBB. I want the girl next door paddling me.
This was on my mind. Now to some pictures that I did not take.
I like every thing about this picture, except the cigarette.
Xtra Long Legs
Bubble Butt
This has been around, but it’s fav of mine.
I know some readers have never spanked a woman. This is how I like spankings to go.
Her suitcase on the floor. I wonder h0w many panties she packed for this rendezvous
A Bath Brush Can Be Hard to Take
This picture goes back 40 odd years. She put it in an ad. We exchanged letters. Yes, letters. She found her spanker before I could close the deal with her.
Bogey a great set of pictures and yes did enjoy last Sunday set thankyou.
And do visit OBB on Bdsmlr.com please have a look 427chastity @Bdsmlr.com
Thanks Greg, but I have zero interest in chastity.
Thank you for saying you have no interest in Chasity. I couldn’t Agree more!.
Ah… Fall! Football’s back and dove season’s opening! Great weekend for Longhorn and Cowboy fans. Yes, I know; enjoy it while we can… LOL. Sorry I missed the Bacall post. Weekends get busy during pigskin season… high school, college, pro… oh my!
So, agree with your opening sentiment. Ditch the cig and it’s a really enticing pic! The second photo ain’t bad either, always up for a daring glimpse of womanly thigh above stocking tops! You packed a lot of good stuff in this post… bubble butts, moisture-glistened red behinds (super hot!), sexy suitcase rendezvous. I remember that pic of the gal you corresponded with. Didn’t know it was part of an ad, thought it was from a NuWest photo set or something similar. Great amateur shot either way.
I concur Ditch the cig I would would also like to see the landing strip go as well
I wonder how many followed directions of —second round of Pick Y0ur Spanker– I liked that picture but didn’t pick her to spank me.
I don’t make things clear when I comment, (she is really glowing ! good times) on your Bacall fav.
A great set of pictures– my favs, the opener and the red head in the mirror a great view. I would like to perv those panties in the suitcase
I did not find the picture on Saturday amusing so I did not comment. I do enjoy todays collection.
I do not see every post you make of comment on every one unless these is something I want to say.
So hey I saw the post Saturday and similar to Lee Roberts Sometimes I get an urge to comment sometimes I do not. In regard to your picture of Bacall, I thought it was a nice picture and she seemed to be enjoying herself, but she is your wife and I do not feel it is my place to comment or make comments about another man’s wife. I am sorry if you or Bacall were offended that no one commented I can only speak for myself when I say that I did not make any comment out of respect for you. That being said I will say you are one lucky SOB to have a beautiful fun loving spanking wife
Thank you
You are welcome
Agree, I wouldn’t presume to make a comment about Bacall. Perhaps, in hindsight I should have shared my view that some women are like good wine – they mature to perfection. That single picture showed the lady to be premier crus.
I, think, I understand where you and others are coming from. I make all posts on the 80″ in front of our recliners, so Bacall saw this post before it went live. The picture was a tame one. She was dressed (and undressed) to kill that night.
Bottom line, when women dress up they expect men to notice them and they welcome compliments.
I also prefer the girl next door type spanker over the sever thrash em at all cost Dom type ladies
the cigarette lady has something of a kinder, gentler Mrs. Robinson vibe going on. I wouldn’t necessarily associate it with spanking, but if she were to inquire, I would definitely say yes. Also particularly enjoy the pool table pic.
I know I have occasionally given off subby vibes, it’s really all about the costuming and attitude. actual humiliation, and demeaning verbalizing, is not my jawn.
nurturing, but not mothering.
it’s complicated.
The cigarette lady was the For Openers picture. I forgot to label it as such. Openers never have amything to do with spanking.
Please don’t stop sharing about Bacall! I’m just catching up after being away for a week and looks like I missed a great picture…
Here is the photo, sans the explanation
Thanks for sharing! It looks like a fun time.
Interesting distinction between a simple spanking and discipline/punishment, and whether it’s delivered by a dominatrix or the girl next door.
I’m kind of in the middle. I love the lecture and the discipline as part of role play. For whatever reason, I like to be punished for minor offenses like peeking up a skirt or copping a feel. But it’s never serious- when Irene is annoyed with me she’d never want to spank me. And I love it when she’s enjoying the process – laughing and smiling.
Thanks for your insights.
What follows is NOT about you. OK?
A reader sent me a link to a clip of Family Fued. The question was what should a wife do if her husband was impolite. I answered just like the guy, get spanked. It was the obvious top answer. The reader would not have been able to make that answer and have lost the game. Too ashamed to say the word. If spanking is associated with punishment – something done to a child, I can see that people would be too ashamed to say the word.
Spanking is fun for some of us. We are not ashamed.
I have commented to literally hundreds of women I did not know over the years with a remark like “You need a good spanking”. The best reply was made by her wingman, “She does, she does”. And so they both a got a spanking and we all laughed.
I like to be punished for minor offenses like peeking up a skirt or copping a feel.
Bacall would never be annoyed with me for peeking up her skirt and copping a feel. Unless I did it in crude way.
You know Like I said before she seems like she is having fun, and that you are a lucky SOB to have a wife to spank you. After a second look, I have to say based on her arms I have to imagine that she is very apt at and a lot of fun to be over her knee. Not sure if you guys do or if she would but I know from your posts she likes to spank otk and if I ever run into her I would be happy to go otk with her.
I am not lucky in the sense you mean. We talked about spanking on our first date. She understood that we would be spanking each other.
I never go OTK. I am a bend over fellow.
I know you’re a bend-over boy. I meant lucky in the sense as having a wife who is into spanking
More men could be lucky, if they would see how their prospective wife feels about spanking BEFORE the vows and then springing it on her.
Hi Bogey,
Sorry for not commenting on Bacall. I never saw or realized there was a photograph of her. I do like and appreciate the collections. You pull together and I’m very grateful!
I also agree with you about girl next door. I really am offended by this dominatrix stuff and the surrounding worthiness conversations. I think that’s a separate category from what we do.
Thanks again for everything!
John.
Having been heavily involved in different areas of the UK spanking scene, one recognises that spanking comes in many flavours. People have their personal preferences, needs, and kinks. My own preference is for spanking to be mutual fun, sensual, above all lighthearted, and with the right partner, erotic. With the Brits seemingly obsessed with spankees dressed as schoolgirls there does appear to be some complex psychological processes going on for a lot of people. Comments on websites and forums expressing serious preference for humiliation and punishment for women, are worrying.
Keeping it fun is…… More fun
My own preference is for spanking to be mutual fun, sensual, above all lighthearted, and with the right partner, erotic.
I agree with you. I want spanking to be exclusively about spanking.
Your school girls wear bottle green knickers and straw hats. The knickers turn me off. American “school girls”, those who never worn a uniform in school, tend to wear short tartan skirts and white panties. It gets tiresome.
Don’t get me started on humiliation and punishment for men or women.
The preferred colour of knickers is a whole subset of the schoolgirl fetish. I have heard guys debating this preference between white, navy blue and bottle green. The concensus seems to be that white is the most popular. Who knew there was a trans-Atlantic ‘special relationship’ on the colour of ‘schoolgirl’ knickers!
The amusing part to me is that on the west side of the Atlantic, outside of private and Catholic schools, few girls wore uniforms. While guys could be paddled in public schools, very girls were. That said, it seems that every 30yo woman has a uniform in her closet. Usually worn at Halloween.