I don’t have a picture post ready for today. Sorry. I will close voting on Pick Your Spanker this afternoon.
Still recovering from Covid, I have had too much daydream time the last week. Back in the very first days of the net, specifically ARPANET, there were Use Nets. They were typically hosted at universities but provided worldwide communications for all sorts of content, including between spanking enthusiasts.
There seemed to be more women users, but women are more verbose and they had taken taken typing. Factual and fictional stories blossomed. I learned that that men and women shared vast territory about spanking.
One story of not great content escaped my deep thoughts. It was set in a boys boarding school. Middle to high school age. Can you imagine that paddling was the customary punishment? With a twist, the school administrator would make the boys don thongs. If the younger boys exhibited any signs of tenting, she would have them sit between her legs and massage them until their eyes rolled back in their heads. The older boys were given a few encouragement licks and allowed to rub one out themselves under supervision before getting paddled.
The author asked me if I thought she went too far. At that time, I did not think so.
Would you consider being paddled if an orgasm was required before the paddling?
I experienced being paddled post orgasm years ago. It was very unpleasant. I do not recommend it.
I have no doubt it was unpleasant. Curious, did you suspect it would be unwelcome and go ahead anyway? Was it your idea?
No. In my experience, just like right after taking a shower, a spanking after an orgasm is way too painful, which I also avoid.
Those early groups were a coming out party of sorts for burgeoning writers of spanking fiction, not to mention spanko’s themselves. Hard not to be a bit nostalgic about the sense wonder at finding a community of like-minded enthusiasts. My answer to your post-hormone aided paddling question would be a definite ‘pass’… unless you’re talking about the 18 year-old ‘me’ who’d see it as foreplay for Round Two?
I’ve read about folks doing that and thought about it. But as soon as I’ve come, I lose interest. I suppose it would be appropriate if I were getting a true punishment spanking, but we only role play.
so no.
I have suggested that those who want true punishment should orgasm before spanking. They did not think much of my idea.
I also have found that after an orgasm, my interest in spanking seems to vanish for a while which is why I have always considered spanking as part of having sex and less about punishment.
After turning 30. My interest in sex or spanking went to zero after orgasm.
For me, unless there was some specific reason and it was required by my wife, the answer would be no. Post orgasm, the endorphins are gone, and pain tolerance is through the floor. BUT, it would an experience that you could never forget. That does make the idea intriguing. But, then again, NAHHHH. 🙂
Intreresting response. My wife would have never become my wife had she required anything like that. Intriguing? Would be horrifying to me. But. we come to the same end NAHHH
I had several experiences of such a paddling after orgasm.
Most memorable and most painful was a session I had with several women present. They stripped me of all clothing , had me stand before them with hands over head and they each took turns stroking my penis till I came. They I was bent over the back of a chair and each in turn paddled my bottom, probably a good three dozen swats. I felt each one far more than any time I was paddled and I had trouble merely putting my underwear back on let alone sitting for several days afterwards.
Having made me cum before that paddling sort of took away the edge of handing a good punishment.
It left me much more vulnerable to the actual osi. Of the wooden paddle striking me.
Miss those days.
nope, nope that would not be the way I want it, right from the Beginnings of my interest in spanking the orgasm with the spanking. My nun spanking fantasy is that way too- motor boating a nun should get you spanked
I would absolutely take the paddling after an orgasm. Spanking for me has become so much more than sex and, I think I’m in the minority, but it never really hurts enough for me and I’m looking to be reset. There are lots of things written about this and I won’t try and explain it, but I would just say that it might even be better for me because it would have me concentrate on the spanking instead of fantasizing
Usenet:
I have fond memories of the early days of the web. I had a university account and usenet had no nonsense until AOL was admitted, and then it went to hell.
On the other hand, AOL brought in women And they were initially not shy about writing about spanking. There were even groups that had writing contests for spanking stories. I participated in those and won sometimes.
I met and spent several girls from the early days of the Internet, including shadow Lane. They had a great personals section, and there was no nonsense, the women were who they said they were, and were accessible to talk.
I considered it a great loss Nguyen all of this got crowded out.
I have read that there are more women than men interested in Spanky. Most of the people here are old I know that younger people are far less likely to be Engaging in personal relationships, including sexual ones. But there are women who would now be in their 40s.. Who must be looking for someone to spank them. I don’t think they are using Facebook because they will immediately out themselves.
i’m not looking for a partner, but I wonder how people are connecting because you know they are.
I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts
I never had AOL. Tho, they sent me a CD every week for a long time. AOL was useful in getting our spanking group started. Users could list their interests, like spanking. Then, others could search for those that entered ‘spanking.’ One gal searched and vetted prospects. We always had a few more women than men in the group.
I agree more women than men like spanking and they are not shy about admitting it. If I was interested in a gal I would just ask if she was interested in spanking.
??? I considered it a great loss Nguyen all of this got crowded out