Several months ago I  offered several of our paddles and straps for the cost of shipping. Six folks took advantage of the offer. I asked one of them to tell me how the paddles were working out for them.  They are a switch couple like us.
These are the paddles they got.
First, the 9mm round Birch paddle. (9m is ~ 3/4″) It’s the one on the left. It’s on the heavy side. (The other paddles should be ignored for this post)
The other paddle is southern pine and really stings. It’s shown on the right. We called it the Teacher’s paddle.  (The other paddle should be ignored for this post)
In an email several months ago, he remarked

We do switch. There’s some ebb and flow to it. My wife liked being spanked but was opposed to spanking until I helped her to see them as “spicy massages.”

When I spank her there’s a strong sexy dominance element but I also have shown her how much I like creating color and seeing her body move, which are things she can appreciate from the giving end.

Continuing to rack up experiences with that round paddle. Last night she gave me about 200 medium-strength swats. Feeling it nicely today. The first 70-80 or so are hard to stay still for, but then we settle in and being a guy I’m determined to take whatever she wants to give because I’m just glad she’s into it!

I gave her an incredible belting two nights ago in bed. I keep her close so I can rub between each one. She really likes it and it means I get to spank more before the limit’s hit. Fun for everyone. We’re getting a bit careless with the sounds at night. No one’s scarred, we hope.

This is what they wrote last week

We’ve done a number of spankings with the pine and the round birch paddles. The pine is a lighter paddle with a fantastic sting. Its length lets one cheek be emphasized or both evenly. We typically spank each other bent over our washing machine since it’s the most private area of the house.Our reactions to being spanked with the pine aren’t the same. I like the way the sting makes me quiver. My wife says, “I like the way it makes your upper leg muscles move.” It’s fun but I don’t ramp up much beyond that. The weight of the pine is a good fit for my wife’s strength.

She likes the feel of the wood and the weight of the pine once she’s warmed up, but the sting is hard for her if I don’t do the first few right, and that’s after 100 or so hand spanks to warm up.

We’ve tried a couple of short, intense paddlings of her and while it’s really fun to watch her instantly squirm while bent over, she’s done after 15 seconds. The pine paddle is making me a more patient spanker!

The heavier weight and roundness of the birch mean we are spanked with it quite differently. When she’s getting the birch, it’s because I want to give a quiet spanking. I swing it into her slowly to keep the noise down. The fun for her comes from the momentum and not at all the sting.  But it’s still not her favorite. (We have a handled cutting board that is the best at quiet, slow paddling.)

When I’m getting the birch, it’s an intense, deep-hitting spanking. She paddles me almost as fast as with the pine, with the same moderate strength, and with the birch, that means the first several dozen are stingy and intense, and everything after that builds up a heat and sensitivity that encompasses my entire butt and makes me feel highly thankful for her skill and attention!

After spanking, we will chat about how it went. Since we’re in the laundry room, sometimes I push her down onto a pile of clothes and do stuff. If I spanked her long enough, she’s usually ready to go right over the washing machine. Other times we go to bed and do stuff. Falling asleep next to each other with a couple of hot bottoms is the best ending to a day.

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May 14, 2024 6:51 am

I have never been a paddles guy, but I suppose that could change with the right partner and attitude.

bare hand and a belt are more my speed.

Dan Quale
Dan Quale
May 14, 2024 5:27 pm
Reply to  Luke

I have never been a belt, switch cane guy. Paddles(Leather Lexion and wood) are fine. I used to have a couple of nice hair brushes That I wish I could find

May 14, 2024 8:28 am

Slow, steady, progressive… what’s not to like? It’s the old ‘frog in the pot’ method!

Dan Quale
Dan Quale
May 18, 2024 6:32 pm

I would like to ignore the other paddles but I can’t That damn red Filbeck paddle is great to spank with. It is just right in weight and circumference. It packs a very nice sting, I actually can’t understand why Bogey does not like going otk this paddle is perfect for it and I am sure Bacall would apply it to his butt satisfactorily.

May 19, 2024 7:59 am
Reply to  Dan Quale

She applied it many times with fine results. But, only once OTK. For some reason, my boner melts when OTK and when that happens it’s no longer fun. It was one of the paddles that we would ask for when we were feeling brave or insane. It turned Bacall red a few times and she would comment the rest of the day that she could still feel it.