Why Do You Spank?
Foreword – I have ADD and that means all my memories are incomplete. ADD folks don’t record everything, just flashes of events. If you fan a deck of cards you will get a glimpse of some of the cards. You might see a black King but can not tell if it is a spade or club. Many of the cards will not be recognized. That’s the way ADD types store memories.
Why Do You Spank? It could be like Hank William’s song Family Traditions.
I have mentioned several times here that I spanked all/most [choose one, I don’t recall] of my dates in HS. I did not have a clue about spanking. They got sassy, challenged me and I spanked them. It just seemed the natural thing to do. They considered it fun. I never thought beforehand about spanking them. I had no sexual fantasies about spanking.
It became sexual after the spanking. Her dress/skirt up, her bottom on view, what was a teenage boy supposed to d0. Would she have allowed me to reveal her charms making out on the first date. Probably not. But, it was somehow OK because it was required for a spanking.
So there she was, exposed, submissive and receptive to fondling.
Were any of them accustomed to being spanked? I don’t ever recall asking. But, they were not strangers to the practice.
Were teenage girls universally sassy with their dates? You tell me. Did they push their boyfriends to see his reaction? Were they secretly happy by how hard he got?
Due to ADD I can not relate with any specificity how the spankings played out. How many spanks? Not many, probably ten or so with my hand. There might be a second round if she continued with her sass. It usually did on the next date.
I was 19 when a switch flipped and I consciously plotted to spank and wanted to be spanked.
While the motivation for spanking during HS was quasi punishment, as a young adult it was for pleasure. Initially mine and gradually hers as I learned women could get just arroused as I did from a spanking.
Every reader here probably a slightly different reason for their passion for spanking. I wonder how much our reason was influenced by fictional spanking stories and some absurd video plots.
For me, when the gal is giving me sass while I am spanking her, it takes me back to HS days.
What Got You Started Spanking?
Not related to this post, except for memories. It’s before my time, but I have always liked it.
Bob Hope and Rosemary Clooney doing Hope’s theme song, Thanks for the Memories